As a young teenager, I used to bash on concerts. I thought it was the dumbest waste of money. Really, you just stood there for a few hours, heard what I figured you could otherwise hear on a CD, and then walked away with what I deemed “nothing.” What I didn’t understand then was how powerful it can be to watch an artist perform live: the nuances that you pick up, the way they match their music to the venue, the collective feeling of listening along with others who feel just as passionate about the music as you do.
At some point, my attitude changed, and I think it had to do with Bruno Mars.
Bruno Mars was set to perform in Chicago. My mom asked my sister and me, 3 times during the year, “Do you want me to buy you guys tickets to see Bruno? I hear he is supposed to be pretty good, we can go together”. And every time, I offered some iteration of “who is he?”, “I don’t listen to that music.” or “I don’t know that I would like his music.” It was when she asked me the fourth time that it hit me. SHE wanted to go to the concert.
Bruno was headlining the summer before I left for college. I knew that my mom would miss me, and I wanted to do something special for her. I bought the tickets, came up with an elaborate scheme, (bringing her to the United Center for our friend’s “recreational hockey league super-important-we-can’t-miss-it-championship tournament ;P ”) and surprised her. I don’t think I have ever seen my mom tear up at presents, but she was so surprised and shocked that someone cared to take her, that her emotions got the best of her.
Lead-up to the concert, I had been listening to his CD (my mom played it EVERY DAY. Probably an indication that she really liked him… it led to my lightbulb, ticket-purchase moment). On the CD, he sounded pretty good. At the concert? Blew my ever-loving mind. Bruno Mars is a phenomenal showman, and I came away with a new appreciation for his work. Since then, I make concerts a priority.
Now, years later, I heard this woman in concert. She’s talented, has a powerful voice, and the whole show I swore, she (as a performer, not her songs) reminded me of Adele. She was someone you wanted to invite over for family dinner. I realized then what those albums don’t show, spark, charisma, life.
Give it a listen or watch a music video. Jade Bird is great!… Her cover of “Grinnin’ In Your Face” was my song of the week back on May 28, 2018 🙂